There’s strength in numbers . . . 30 million baby boomers. We may be getting older, though it will be a kindler, gentler decline for the 217 committed members who have made the pledge on 43 Things, to “age gracefully“. One of the recent generation of self-reminder, community building websites, 43 Things explains:
People have known for years that making a list of goals is the best way to achieve them. But most of us never get around to making a list. 43 Things is great for that! Make a list on 43 Things and see what changes happen in your life.
One of the featured commitments to age gracefully is titled Being able to embrace who I am . . . This wise and wonderful intention touches my heart:
(1) Not being bitter about any past losses or wrongs (perceived or otherwise)
(2) Staying active, staying in shape
(3) Being comfortable in my skin. (Maybe a little hair color!)
(5) Never stop learning. Embrace new ideas.
(6) Enjoy each moment, each phase of my life, not worry about what should have happened, what might happen, what could happen.
(7) Know that I am part of the past and the present and the future and only a small part of the whole big picture.
When I look at the list, I think of the personal support system that sustains me in many of these pursuits. I appreciate Sandy who lovingly resolves what has been and what will be. Teresa is an eager role model of fitness. Staying centered is a gift from Barbara. Susan encourages my intellect as my co-author. With Ellen at my side the present is ultimately valued, as is the past and the future. My beloved Aunt Teresa provides the legacy of big-picture thinking and generational insights.
The capacity to look forward to whatever we find interesting, motivating and fulfilling is a gift. Sharing it is expansive to our circle . . . whether it’s a short list, 217 online sisters, or a big, wide wonderful generation of women growing together.
